Something Cannot Change

Well there is many situation that, we can't do anything ... hmm if you read 7 habits book before I think you should past over this ... Direct Control, Indirect control, Can not Control ... well direct control is everything is up to us .. on how we want to control, like control our thought, our action, our responses ... indirect control wherelse .. we can indirect influence someone to do something that we can't do, but we want that result ... then to uncontrol is like weather, rules, ... where is rain means rain we can shout and ask it to stop, every country have thier own rules we must follow ... hmm so while when we come to something that we unable to control and cannot change the situation .. that's means is the time to CHANGE OURSELF, CHANGE OUR THOUGHT to change ourself to adapt to the environment .. ..

To change we must willing to change and know what to change !